Sometimes itâs not what was said but what was not. Following Chelseaâs 2-2 draw against Tottenham, Sky Sports pundit Graeme Souness described football as a 'manâs gameâ, while sitting next to former Lioness Karen Carney. This quickly generated a media storm and Souness was soon being lambasted for his remarks on social media.His statement was in reference to the hostile affair at Stamford Bridge, where managers Thomas Tuchel and Antonio Conte clashed, players grappled and tensions spilled well beyond the final whistle. Though Tuchelâs frosty handshake with an agitated Conte was generally well received by the football world, Sounessâ subsequent comments were not. Former England Womenâs star Eni Aluko branded his remarks as ânot ok.â Euro 2022 winner Beth England condemned the words as âdisgraceful,â and Carney appeared to roll her eyes in the studio.
Yet, despite the backlash, many jumped to Sounessâ defence. Some sought to rebuff the criticism as âwoke talk,â while Souness himself even doubled down on his views on TalkSport.
To some, this begs the question of whether this criticism is perhaps a little harsh. Is it fair to pinpoint Souness as an enemy of womenâs football or is it more advantageous to denounce those who are directly undermining its existence?
The real criticism of Souness, however, is not his comments directly ââ rather, itâs the implications of his words, which give rise to negative connotations surrounding womenâs football and relegates it back to merely a subset of the 'manâs game.âÂ
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Breaking down Sounessâ comments
There has been much confusion surrounding the intended meaning of Sounessâ words, which has led to conflicting opinions on whether he is guilty of wrongdoing.
Some inferred that his direct reference to a 'manâs gameâ was an attempt to stress that football is meant to be played by men.Â
Conversely, others argued that the statement was made in a purely masculine context and that Souness was referencing the behaviour of male players in a menâs game of football.Â
In any case, whatever Sounessâ original intention, he is no doubt guilty of ignorance.
Like all pundits on Sky, his opinions are heard by millions and scrupulously analysed both in the media and on social platforms. In this way, though he might be subject to mockery at times, he is a figure whose comments hold weight and will influence a number of people.
Souness may not have meant to say anything censuring, yet there are plenty who will have interpreted it that way, thereby casting more negativity onto womenâs football.
Itâs perhaps why presenter Dave Jones was so quick to clarify that football is âa womenâs game as well,â as he himself realised the potentially damning consequences of Sounessâ statement.
To compound matters, Souness then defended his words on TalkSport earlier this week, stating: âYesterday in my comments I said weâve got our game back. Thatâs the kind of football I remember playing.â
In truth, his spiel offered little elaboration and appearing on the show of Simon Jordan, a man who has openly criticised the womenâs game in recent weeks, certainly didnât help to prove his innocence.
The unnecessary distinction
Discussion on the topic of Sounessâ behaviour has been widely debated across a number of media outlets, but a conversation on Piers Morgan Uncensored encapsulated the ingrained distinction that is so often made when it comes to comparing menâs and womenâs football.
Political Correspondent Ava Santina attempted to explain how Sounessâ comments were âoutdatedâ and âignorantâ, and clashed with broadcaster Mike Graham, who sought to justify the football punditâs statement.
âYou donât want to see the womenâs coaches fighting each other,â Graham stressed. âWhereas you do want to see the menâs coaches pushing and shoving each other a bit. Itâs great fun.â
This view epitomises the strange and archaic ideology that womenâs football should be everything that menâs football is not. That its very draw is that there is no foul language, no brutish behaviour and no wrongdoing in general.
Except this is not the case whatsoever, and if it was, avid supporters of womenâs football would certainly not be praising it.
Jonas Eidevallâs fierce rivalry with Emma Hayes last season was box office viewing at times, while Jill Scott yelling obscenities in the face of a German player at Wembley last month went viral on social media.
In this way, if Sounessâ comments were meant in the context of menâs football only, this is suggestive that the same does not apply to the womenâs game â that itâs a separate entity to the âmenâs gameâ, a separate sport even.
Given the recent success of Euro 2022, Sounessâ comments are even more damaging. Womenâs football has been catapulted into the mainstream and these words are merely serving to stunt its progress.
The importance of language
There is a certain irony to all this, in that Souness was praising the behaviour of male conduct that included hair pulling ââ a generalisation commonly affiliated with women.
âMen [going] at it,â he stated emphatically on Super Sunday.
What this again proves is how important language can be and how itâs necessary for influential figures to choose their words carefully.
Natalie Pike, the host of Talking Balls, summed up how Souness could have correctly broached his satisfaction with the events at Stamford Bridge ââ clarifying exactly how he could have phrased his words.
âItâs a physical game all of a sudden again,â she said as if she were speaking as Souness. âWeâve got our football back. Great physical players going blow for blow and I agree with that. I love football, I love warriors.â
To some, this might seem like nitpicking at the minor details and an attempt to catch someone out for saying the wrong thing. Yet, this debate should not be overcomplicated.
Indeed, there are few seeking to âcancelâ Souness or get him reprimanded for his words. Rather, the overriding feeling among those who feel aggrieved is purely disappointment.
Football is a simple game, loved by many, watched by millions and played by all. Is it really so hard to make that clear?